my sister went through the same thing, she actually found an older ortho that was able to treat her with braces and fix her bite for the most part, however, as we have said her, STABILITY becomes an issue and her bite issue has come back a bit even though wearing retainers....
If she had to do it all over again, probably would of went with the surgery, but I would get one more ortho consult and see what the 3rd says.. call around and find ones that specailize in bite issues...
Good luck and don't stress out, it is really an easy process and you can continue to live your life as normal while going through it
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